UToledo Human Resources

How to Document a Discussion

Process

  • Summarize what was said during the meeting.
  • Describe the expectations - clearly state what the policy/procedure requires.
  • Describe the behavior or performance that must change and that which should continue.  **Remember to describe the conduct, not the employee.
  • Include the employee's explanation why the expectations are not being met.
  • Include the detailed action plan with specific deadlines.

Tips to Remember

  • Set specific deadlines.
  • Avoid vague, unclear statements about what the employee needs to do to improve.
  • Avoid absolutes like "always" and "never".
  • Include positive comments.
  • Prepare the documentation as though a third party will read it.

Example

To:  [Employee Name]
From:  [Manager Name]
Date: 2/1/2021
Re:  Follow-up to 1:1

Dear [Employee Name],

This email is to document our conversation today, regarding describe the performance/behavior issue.  During the meeting, we spoke about ________.  During our discussion you brought up that the reason for the issue was because _________.

As we discussed, the performance/behavior issue is not in line with list University/department policy / management expectation here.  It is the expectation that moving forward you will ___________ by deadline date.

To assist you through this process, here are some resources/guidelines that you can utilize.  I will schedule a follow-up meeting for date to review progress on this issue.  Please let me know if you are unclear about any of the expectations or if you feel I have left out any details from our conversation.

Thank you,
[Manager Name]

Last Updated: 6/29/26