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Sexual Assault Education & Prevention Program

What Were You Wearing Art Installation

2025 Installation Updates 

The What Were You Wearing exhibit is an installation answering the question frequently asked of survivors. This exhibit features narratives and re-creations of outfits based on survivors' experiences. This event occurs yearly during Sexual Assault Awareness Month. Please join us to unlearn one of our culture's most prevalent sexual assault myths. 

Schedule of Events for Spring 2025:

Monday, March 31st - Thursday, April 3rd

What Were You Wearing Art Installation Walk Thru Exhibit

Carlson Library Room 1005, 10 a.m.-4 p.m. daily

What Were You Wearing Kickoff Virtual Celebration

Join us to learn what this exhibit and campaign are all about and hear from Senior Leadership and Campus Administrators!

Virtual via Webex, Monday, March 31st 10-10:30 a.m. RSVP on Invonet.

Monday, April 7th - Thursday, April 10th

What Were You Wearing Art Installation Walk Thru Exhibit

Mulford Library, daily during library hours. 

"What Were You Wearing" Workshops

Please join us this year as we collaborate with our partners to hosts several workshops throughout the week of What Were You Wearing. Learn more about each program and RSVP by visiting the UToledo Title IX Invonet page. 

  • UTMC Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner (SANE): Learn from a UTMC SANE nurse what a Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner is, how to become one, and what they do for survivors of sexual assault. 
    • Tuesday, April 1st, 1 p.m.-2 p.m., Main Campus, Carlson Library, Room 1005
    • Tuesday, April 8th, 1 p.m.- 2 p.m., Health Science Campus, Mulford Library, 4th floor
  • STAR Training with the University Counseling Center: STAR is a suicide prevention awareness program and training led by the UToledo Counseling Center. This program educates participants on how to support someone in need of help. 
    • Wednesday, April 2nd, 1 p.m.-3 p.m., Main Campus, Carlson Library, Room 1005
  • Rocket Upstanders: Media Myths and Rape Culture: Join in this interactive program to explore and discuss the role media plays in shaping perceptions and narratives around sexual violence while making bracelets and eating popcorn. 
    • Monday, April 7th, 1 p.m.- 2 p.m., Health Science Campus, Mulford Library, 4th floor

Collection Examples

Below are some of the pieces of some of our collection for reference.

Story #1

 Men's Detroit Tigers Shirt and Small White Pair of Child Sized Underwear     I was sexually abused for 8 years by my siblings. I was eight years old the first time it happened. I remember it like it was yesterday. I don't think I will ever forget either.

Story #2

 I was 13, in my school uniform. He was 3 years older than me, and said his mom had made dinner while we waited for the basketball game at our school to start. I never made it to the basketball game. He shamed me, and it continued for a year until I spoke about it to anyone.     Outfit 2 Story

Story #3

He was 8 years older than me and visiting the US. Even though he had a lengthy criminal record in Canada, he was able to cross the border in Detroit with no issues. Sometimes I wonder how different things would be if USCIS did extensive background checks like they do for us international students hailing from Muslim-majority countries for Canadian citizens too. Regardless, I trusted him because I didn't think I had anything to fear in broad daylight. I screamed as loud as I could and no one helped me. After it was over, I was bleeding and sobbing loudly. He asked if I liked it.     Outfit 3 Story

Story #4

 It was 13 years ago, and I still remember that instant as it is etched so vividly in my mind. I had stayed up all night helping my family host an event at the temple. The following day, I still had all that energy of a 13-year-old. Just for an instant I wandered off to the car and those car seats make me want to take a nap. I went to my dad smiling and said I wanted to sleep for a while in the cars and he, clueless of how things were never going to be the same for his little girl again handed me the keys. How could any normal human being be provoked by a kid sleeping? I woke up to an uncomfortable pain that still makes me shiver. I saw this man, a familiar face trying to pacify me saying “It is just me! your favorite Uncle! Don’t be scared”. How can I ever see the world with innocence again? I went and told my mother feeling helpless and weak, but she asked me to let it go and just keep it quiet and that she would take care of it. Her words were “If anyone finds out about this, I will forever be marked.” Until then, I believed in humanity. It has haunted me for more than a decade until I finally reached out for help. My reason for sharing this now is because nobody deserves to suffer in silence. More importantly, judgements curb the chances for a person to heal. It isn’t the victim’s fault despite what he/she was wearing.     It was 13 years ago, and I still remember that instant as it is etched so vividly in my mind. I had stayed up all night helping my family host an event at the temple. The following day, I still had all that energy of a 13-year-old. Just for an instant I wandered off to the car and those car seats make me want to take a nap. I went to my dad smiling and said I wanted to sleep for a while in the cars and he, clueless of how things were never going to be the same for his little girl again handed me the keys. How could any normal human being be provoked by a kid sleeping? I woke up to an uncomfortable pain that still makes me shiver. I saw this man, a familiar face trying to pacify me saying “It is just me! your favorite Uncle! Don’t be scared”. How can I ever see the world with innocence again? I went and told my mother feeling helpless and weak, but she asked me to let it go and just keep it quiet and that she would take care of it. Her words were “If anyone finds out about this, I will forever be marked.” Until then, I believed in humanity. It has haunted me for more than a decade until I finally reached out for help. My reason for sharing this now is because nobody deserves to suffer in silence. More importantly, judgements curb the chances for a person to heal. It isn’t the victim’s fault despite what he/she was wearing.

Story #5

 Outfit 5      Story 5

Story 5 Part 2     Story 5 Part 3

 
SUBMIT A STORY

The collection captures real life narratives from our UToledo Community including faculty, staff, and students. If you would like to submit your narrative and a detailed description of the outfit you were wearing to the Title IX Office for possible display in our installation, you can do so anonymously by clicking the link below. 

Thank you for allowing us to honor your story.

 SHARE YOUR SURVIVOR STORY HERE

  Jamie Wlosowicz and Dr. Sharon Gaber
Last Updated: 2/24/25